How Porn Affects Your Relationship

Betty Page may be the oringinal centerfold for the last century, but porn dates back at least 35,000 years. And this claim can be backed by the scientists who unearthed a larged thighed, ample breasted, and very sexually aroused statue of Venus from what we’ll call a group of creative and artistic cavemen. It was […]

Echo Charles on Cheat Days, Bro Science, and Best Lessons from the Jocko Podcast

He is the perfect posterboard for what Jiu-Jitsu can do for a man. He is a husband, a father, and close friend to Jocko Willink, and the co-host for one of the greatest podcasts on air today. And when Echo Charles tells you to “get after it,” you better know what you’re getting and be […]

10 Ways to Become a Better Man Today

The road to becoming a great man is a long one filled with dense fog, deep forests, steep rocky inclines, and… nothing but a blank map. It figures, because every time a man could really use a detailed map, he never has it with him. Map or not, the effort to improve is always a […]

Manly Pursuits and Personal Endeavours

Many men choose to try and improve themselves. Either for relationships or the prospect of finding one, or other reasons such as career or personal growth. While we do what we can at Urbasm to help,  sometimes the wisdom of others is required to becoming a better man. Red Flags to Watch for on Your […]

The UNinterview – Hunter S. Thompson

The good doctor, otherwise known as Hunter S. Thompson may be no longer with us, but for many, his memory lives on. Originally starting out as a writer for various newspapers, he’s known for books like Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas and Hell’s Angles, with an assortment of his work featured in Rolling Stone […]

7 Signs You Need to Grow Up

What are the signs of an adult who refuses to grow up? Do you think you would know them if you saw them? Or better yet, do you think that you would recognize them in yourself? It is called the “Peter Pan Syndrome,” and it affects thousands of men over the age of 30 each […]

The (Modern) Art of Being a Gentleman – Interview with Author, Dr. Dain Heer

Do you know what it means to be a man right now? What about a gentleman? If we stumped you with that question you are not alone. In fact, a lot of guys aren’t sure how to be a gentleman, but today we’d like to give you a nudge (more like a full-on shove) in […]

5 Things that Inspire All Men

If you want a truly exceptional life, there is only one thing that stops most men from achieving that. We’re talking about inspiration. Think about it. Every man has the potential to be great. We are all given the stuff necessary to make dreams come true, but only a handful ever do. And do you […]

Waiting, Dating and Mating – According to Science

Man’s quest for a mate can be met by many challenges, but he should never throw in the towel. Women might never be completely understood by most men, and so long as you’ve got the basics, you’ll have a shot at finding the one to have a relationship. A little advice can go a long […]

Meeting Women, Best States to Date, and Steak Vending Machines

According to the comedian, Steve Harvey, A man needs three things to survive the typical week. He needs support, loyalty, and a good steak (we’re paraphrasing a bit, but we doubt he’d disagree). And while the first two are subject to the women (and friends) you choose to spend time with, the last one can now […]