How to Be a Man – And Fix Your Lady a Drink

One of the pitfalls of being a man trying to impress a lady, is that she most likely assumes that you should already know everything she needs. This is part of the Prince Charming hex, which has been cast over every man’s head. The result is that we are expected to be charming, handsome, polite, […]

The Science of Seduction

What kind of techniques do you use on a first date? Do you think that girls fall for the overconfident bad boy? Do women fall for the proven tactics to get them to feel more comfortable with you, or is it better to just be yourself? Why not allow science make the mistakes before you […]

How To Kiss Her To Turn Her On

Locking lips for the first time can make or break what she thinks of you from then on. Even if a date is going well, if you don’t kiss her in a way that leaves her wanting more, she’ll flick you off to the Friend Zone faster than an umpire can say, “You’re out!” So, […]

Survivors – Overcoming a Hostage Crisis

The 92’-95’ war in Bosnia was complex and convoluted to say the least. I was a reporter following up on a story idea with a religious angle, and was asked to join a peace keeping military patrol that took us deep into bandit country. The cold rain had started driving hard at the windshield of […]

What Women Want in a Man

How many of you guys have dated an amazing woman, only to mess up, and have absolutely no idea what went wrong? Did you know that there are game rules for getting laid, and if you play them right, you actually can have your cake, and eat it every night without a single complaint. It […]

Survivors – Shot Six Times At Point Blank Range

I am the survivor of an intense two year stalking and harassment situation that culminated with attempted murder. I was living in New York City at the time (2006). The perpetrator was a woman who had been evicted from a property I managed. She tried suing my business partners and myself, claiming a number of […]

Celebrity Mindset Coach, Sam Chauhan, Tells Us Three Things Every Guy Should Know

Sam Chauhan is responsible for the success of hundreds of athletes, poker players, and Fortune 500 professionals. So when he told us three things that he thought we ought to know; we listened–and you should probably too. Materialism Doesn’t Create Happiness Happiness comes from within your inner core. You can’t control all of the things […]

Carnegie’s 9 Important Principles of a Lasting Relationship

Men, we know that navigating dating with success can be difficult. However, it can be simplified by using the nine simple principles of a lasting relationship, which has been adapted from the Carnegie classic, How to Win Friends & Influence People. While this advice has traditionally been set in terms of how to improve your […]

How to Be a Man… and Kick Ass

There are a lot of naysayers out there who think that men have forgot how to kick ass. We’re not talking about grabbing a crowbar and beating the tar out of someone; but rather learning a skill, perfecting it, and then working to be the best at it. If you are ready to rise above […]

Morning Link Dump – July 18, 2013

Being a classy gentleman takes more than good  hygiene, a clean pressed suit, tie, pocket square, and the ability to form a complete sentence while texting. It takes a combination of attitude, style, experience, intuition; plus a little advice from other guys who know what they’re talking about. How to Be A Classy Gentleman – Playboy The […]