Zan Perrion is what you’d call a romance artist, as his technique comes from the core of what all women want. He does not preach any gimmicks to seduce women, as his natural gift is his appreciation and insight in their desires. In other words, a true player is not in the game to hurt women, but rather to celebrate them.
There are very few players who could actually be called a true natural when it comes to women. However, Zan is one of these lucky fellows, and when we asked him the three most important things every player should know, his answer were as simple as they were profound:
If men would only understand that women are constantly thinking about sex – even more than us – their lives would change. A woman might act all demure and innocent, but the moment she realizes that a guy knows what is really going on in her head, and is in on her little secret, all the walls and pretenses come down. He is now included in her sphere, and other men are not.
Stop hiding your desire for women. Express it, embrace it, celebrate it. It is a great thing to express to the world exactly what you want. Great desire is not neediness, although a lot of men might think that it is.
Never do anything you don’t want to do, just to please a woman. Never apologize when you have caused no real offense. Never explain or defend yourself in any way. There is no respect in any of that, there is no strength in that at all. If a man apologizes when he has caused no real offense, or compromises his spirit just to please a woman, then he deserves her disdain.
Zan Perrion is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today. A regular media commentator, he has been widely featured in the international press. Zan is the founder of the Ars Amorata philosophy–a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure. He is also a co-founder of the Amorati network of men. Zan divides his time between Canada and Romania and can be found at www.zanperrion.com.
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